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When you think of your garage, what comes to mind? Dusty? Smelly? Dirty? Well, that may be true but that doesn’t mean it can’t be steamy, illicit and sexy, too.

Your garage is probably that one place that is truly your domain. I mean, really, how often does your woman step into it? So don’t feel threatened that your garage will be this frilly, pink place for lovemaking. In fact, this is YOUR chance to probably make one of your sexual fantasies come true: having a sexual place that shouts the word `dude’.

How to Transform Your Garage into a `Sex Dungeon’

Pick out a specific sexual space or area in the garage.
You don’t need to change the whole garage to make it more suitable for lovemaking. However, I’m sure you don’t want any mishaps either so it’s best if you can at least identify a space in it that you make more conducive for `hot sessions’.

Once you picked out the `sex spot’ you want, do take the effort to clear it up a bit as you don’t want any nails or tacks to hurt you or your woman. Always keep equipment in that securely in place too or in boxes.

Now that you’ve cleared the space a bit, think about your perfect lovemaking day. Do you want it on the floor? On a makeshift table? On a chair? It’s good to visualize this now so that you can prepare.

For instance, if it’s the floor then be sure you have think plaid you can spread out w/in reach. If it’s on a table, be sure you have those sturdy foldable ones tucked somewhere. If it’s on a chair, then it’s easy enough to place a sturdy chair in the garage under the pretense that you need it while you work, right? Throwing in a cushion or two in a box may come in handy too when the time comes!

Keep some sexual goodies.
As they say, out of sight means out of mind so why not stash some sexy items in the garage that will make your blood boil and make you go into the house in search of your woman? For instance, put a few adult magazines at the bottom of your tool box.

In fact, if it’s not an issue between you and your partner (and there are no kids running in and out of the garage) why not put a triple X-rated poster on the wall?!? For added measure, just hang it on a nail or something so you can easily reach up, grab it, and chuck it in a box incase unannounced visitors drop by.
Again, assuming that your partner knows what you’re up to and (preferably) agrees to the idea of having the garage as another lovemaking location, then why not go and change some of the garage lights to RED.

Here’s a true story sent to me by one of my clients.

John’s (real name withheld for privacy) girlfriend was always telling him that he was always in the garage tinkering with something that before she knows it, he’d probably want to do EVERYTHING there too. Well, John took it to heart and had this idea of surprising his girlfriend one time. However, before he could pull it off, his girlfriend found out but the great news is instead of being turned off, she found it a huge turn ON!

Jillian (real name withheld for privacy) then thought well she should include some of her sexual fantasies too then. She suggested changing one of the lights - the one hanging directly over the armchair - to red.

John then sent me a long email that as they turned off the lights and left that one sole red light on, the whole room CHANGED and that it seemed that he and his girlfriend changed too. As if they were too people just there to make love. Needless to say, it was THE best sex they’ve ever had.

So what’s your garage lovemaking fantasy? Don’t you think you owe it to yourself to at least try to make it come true? If you’re afraid you’re partner will not like it well, you won’t know until you discuss it with her will you? And who knows, she just might react exactly like `Jillian’ above and bring her own ideas to the table (or chair).

Enjoy!

Gabrielle Moore is the co-author of The Female Ejaculation Mastery. It is a step-by-step guide to teach men about female ejaculation. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com/female-ejaculation.html

The bathroom can be a really exciting sex haven for you and your lover. Of course, you need to be careful as you guys don’t want to slip and hurt yourselves but apart from that, you guys can be in for a truly great lovemaking experience.

So beginning today, start looking at your bathroom as just a place to be clean. Instead, think of it as a hot, steamy room to get down and dirty with your lover.

How to Transform Your Bathroom into Your Own Wet n’ Wild Playground

Involve sex games.
The bathroom is a great location for a lot of fun sex games. This is because the room lends itself to being easily cleaned so there’s no big worry about spills and clutter.

For instance, you may want to include a bit of liquid chocolate while making love but your woman may decide against this because it will `ruin the bedsheets’, right? Well, if you include that while making love in the bathroom, no problem! It’s easily rinsed out! (Of course, this goes for a lot of food items you want to play with while having sex.)

Apart from food and drink items, there are also a lot of sex toys that you can use in the bathroom. Yes, including water-proof ones.

For instance, one hot favorite amongst clients is the `Wet Wheel of Fortune’, which is made up of two plastic discs (one smaller than the other) that are behind each other. You turn the wheel and you perform the sex position that’s indicated on the first wheel (second wheel dictates how long you have to do it).

Since the sex toy is made of plastic, there are no problems of it being damaged. These sex toys sometimes even come with suction cups at the back so you can easily hand them against the bathroom wall or shower stall.

Another favorite shower sex game doesn’t even involve any other objects. By simply using the glass shower stalls, one of you stands behind it (underneath the shower head) and `performs’ while the other stays dry behind the shower stall and gapes at the other! This is a favorite because both partners get to fulfill two different sexual fantasies (role-playing and voyeurism).

Experiment with different lovemaking positions.
For some couples, the bathroom means difficult, awkward and uncomfortable sex positions. I say, look at the bathroom as an excellent way to start trying out NEW lovemaking positions! Here are a couple of my favorites.

The standing doggy. This position calls for your lover to bend at her waist and, using her arms, braise herself on the shower stall. You then make love to her from behind as the warm water from the showerhead sprays on your both.
Riding the waves. This position calls for you to lie on the bathtub (if you don’t have one, the warm shower floor will do). Your lover should then mount you and basically ride your manhood. The warm sudsy water (it should be too soapy!) all around you should provide for great sensations both inside and outside your bodies.
The leg lift. This position calls for her to lean against the shower wall. Reach down and lift one of her legs, and hook her knee on your arm/elbow. You can now penetrate her easier from this position.

Just relax…
Apart from fun sex games and hot new lovemaking positions, the bathroom is also great for romantic bonding times. And sometimes, that’s all a couple needs right? So tonight, if you guys have had a rough day or week, just light some candles, prepare the tub, and turn on some soothing music.

Ask your partner to join you in a long, warm soak and give each other a little sensual massage. Relax your bodies and just enjoy each other’s company. And if that sensual massage turns into something a bit more hot, then so be it!

A lot of couples rarely have time for each other nowadays; and many more seem to look at making love now as a chore rather than a great experience. Bring back the early days of your relationship - the giddy feeling, the undivided attention for each other, and others - by spending more quality time with each other. Even if that means the bathroom becomes your scared sex solace in your home, then so be it.

Gabrielle Moore is the co-author of The G Spot Code. It teaches men how to please women with G Spot orgasms every time. For more information, go to: http://www.thegspotcode.com

Like most homes, you also probably have a spare room that you and your partner have nicely decorated for guests (in-laws, friends, etc.). And again, like most couples, you probably don’t even consider using the guest room yourselves. Well, what if you try and make the guest room your `sex room’?

One time, I read an article that said that actor Matthew McConaughey makes it habit of sleeping in ALL the rooms in his house. And he has no plans or schedules either. When night comes, he simply chooses a different room to sleep in each night.

Now, although you may not like the idea of sleeping 50/50 between your master bedroom and your guestroom(s), you have to admit that having an alternative room for making love does makes things a bit more interesting.

Why? For a lot of couples, even just a tiny change in their sexual routines can unleash a whole new person! Remember that sexual fantasy of making love to a stranger? That’s partly the reason why. If you have sex with a stranger than there’s no need to repress yourself whatsoever; you’re free to do what you want, when you want it, and how rough you want it because hey, you won’t see that person again, right?

Anyways, this is why you should consider making love in your guestroom. You never know how that `guest’ of yours will behave in there.

How to Transform Your Guest Room into a `Sex Room’

Make sure that your guest room is decorated in such a way that can easily be `simplified’ for guests, but also easily `enhanced’ for you and your lover. For example, placing a lot scented candles in the room is great and you can easily add more if the room is for you and your partner tonight.

And since this IS your home, feel free to openly put some sexually enticing stuff in there. For instance, put a coat hanger and hang one of her hottest pieces of lingerie in there. (That’s easy enough to quickly remove and store away if guests are expected, right?)

Another great idea is to keep a bowl of `sex goodies’ in the guest room too. For example, purchase a handful of flavored lubes, edible male genitalia rings, small packets of liquid chocolate, and others. Put all these goodies in a glass bowl to signify that this room is the room for fun games and hot sex. (Of course, store the bowl away if guests are expected.)

Once you’ve taken care of the ambiance, it’s easy to entice you lover to make love in the guest room tonight. Following are some examples.

Tonight, be sure you’re the first one to go into the bathroom and bush your teeth, wash your face, etc., before going to bed. While it’s your partner’s turn to do these rituals, go to the guest room, light the candles, dump ALL your clothes on the floor and spread yourself out on top of the bed. As your partner looks for you, be ready to show her just how `excited’ you are as she looks you up and down spread-eagled on the bed.

Say your in your bedroom and your goodnight kiss turns a tad lustful. This time, don’t just let things turn their natural course (read: routine). Instead, while passionately kissing her whisper that you’re feeling extra horny tonight. This will excite her and she’ll find it hard to object as you pick her up (or lead her) to go into the guestroom. Once there, act like a complete `guest’ or `stranger’ and make love to your woman like never before.

Guests coming over tonight? Then take this opportunity to have a really hot quickie! Just as you guys are preparing the guest room (and preferably just 30 mins before the guests arrive!), engage your lover in sexual banter and foreplay. If she starts to complain about messing up the bed… well, tell her that you guys don’t need to lie down for what you have in mind anyway!

It doesn’t take a lot to improve the quality of your sex life. Just a little thinking out of the box often does the trick. So tomorrow, start looking at that guest room in a different light.

Enjoy yourselves!

Gabrielle Moore is owner of The Female Orgasm Revealed, a site to help men please their female partners with an orgasm every time. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com

I know what you’re thinking. The laundry room is just a utility room, right? How could it ever be ’sexy’? Well, not only can your laundry room be sexy, but those ‘appliances’ can actually be the source of some serious mind-blowing climaxes!

How to Transform Your Laundry Room to a Lusty Room

Once again, ambiance is important so if your laundry room has peeling paint or has a bad odor emanating from it, then thoughts of romance won’t rise to the surface. But the following tricks will!

- Repaint the room or one wall of the room, or just put new - but hot and sexy - wallpaper.
- Change lights to those that can be dimmed.
- Keep a secret box that you’ll casually tell your lover is a `secret stash’ of adult content. You can also make the box a holder for sex games that you can use inside this room!

So, how do you plan for a tryst in the laundry room?

First of all, you need not wait for `laundry day’ (unless of course if it’s just around the corner anyway). Simply mention to your partner that you absolutely must have this shirt/pants/suit to wear tomorrow and so it needs to be washed now.

Once inside the laundry room, all that body touching, back-to-front moves, and bending should be enough to stimulate you. But what about your partner? For starters, make sure that you establish physical contact with her as she enters the room. You can do this by simply making sure your arms or legs (preferable, bare) are touching hers.

The minute she turns around, be sure to be behind her so she can feel your arousal. Be sure to embrace her so that your arms are touching her breasts. However, don’t go that far yet. The laundry should really be started before you go further.

With the laundry started, you can dim the lights at this point or turn off the lights altogether. With the lights low or off, continue groping her. This foreplay should leave you guys soon wanting for more.

However, instead of heading for the bedroom, encourage your partner to make love in the laundry room instead, promising `mind-blowing’ things to come.

While making love, either you or your partner should be reclining against the washing machine. As the appliance makes its motions, you guys should too! Another thing to try is to have your partner sit squarely on top of the washing machine as you masturbate her. (This technique has been claimed by many women to produce the most exquisite orgasms!) Another move to try is to have you sit on the washing machine while your partner straddles you (so that you’re facing each other).

Admittedly, the best part of the washing cycle is the latter part where it’s spinning like crazy to rinse the clothes because this is when the machine does most of its wildest shaking. A great idea is to engage in foreplay till you reach that stage. You could set the machine on `express’ or on the `30-min’ wash cycle. If you don’t have these settings, you can always lure your lover later in the laundry room.

Don’t have enough space in your laundry room? No problem. In fact, a tight and confined space is just perfect for stand-up lovemaking! Turn your lover so that she’s facing the wall. Hold her hands up above her head with one of your hands, while the other frees you both of your clothes. This very manly, I-am-the-boss, position is a favorite amongst many couples who love to do it in small spaces!

A word of caution: Washing machines are quite sturdy but ironing boards are not so you may want to lay off those. Also, dryers can be quite warm or even hot to the touch so you may want to avoid those too. As with every sexual adventure, enjoy but proceed with caution!

Laundry Room Quickie Tip:
This one never fails: nothing turns women on than to see a sexy, semi-naked, hapless guy. Yep, try to help out once in a while with the laundry but do it your way.

For example, wear only boxer shorts and be sure that once you ask your lover for help (e.g., do my dark blue jeans go with the white towel, honey?), you turn around with a `tent pole’ while she comes to your rescue. The sight of you hopeless and horny will do the trick!

Gabrielle Moore is the co-author of The Female Ejaculation Mastery. It is a step-by-step guide to teach men about female ejaculation. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com/female-ejaculation.html

There’s something of a bit of a voyeur in every one of us. Whether you admit it or not, some remote part of you wants to look or be looked at. Yes, even during lovemaking. Well, this article is all about fulfilling that fantasy within the confines of your garden house or garden shed.

How to Transform Your Garden House into a `Naughty, Green Room’

First of all, you may be wondering… why a garden house? Simple really; most garden houses are located at the corner of your garden. As such, it’s hidden from general view but your immediate neighbors may still see inside it! So it provides the perfect hint of naughty danger that every relationship needs! (Plus, it’s considered `indoors’ still so that you won’t get cited for public indecency if others see you.)

First though, you really need to take a good look at your garden house or shed. Most of us throw in a lot of stuff in there that may not at all be suitable for a naughty afternoon. For instance, ensure that there are no sand, stones or rusty nails and screws scattered just everywhere. Make sure too that garden appliances are securely in place or stored in their proper places. (You don’t want to step on the lawn mower or have the big bush cutter fall on top of your head do you?)

Also, make a good effort at cleaning up the place because if you’re partner is the `dainty’ type, no amount of foreplay will get her to make love with you in dirty surroundings! You don’t need to change the main purpose of your garden house or shed (i.e., to store garden stuff) but just clean and clear it up a bit so that it’s actually safe to make love in it!

Once the above is taken care of, the next thing you should check is just how visible are you really from neighbors? If you’re too visible that they can look directly or fully inside and that you guys will be comfortable making love with this, then a few curtains will need to be put up. However, if you’re not that visible and you don’t mind being viewed from just certain angles, then by all means leave the garden house windows bare!

So what’s the appeal of making love in the garden house or shed?

For one, a lot of couples actually like the appeal of `being dirty’ once in a while. For instance, many couples ALWAYS make love in the bedroom, right? Clean sheets, comfy bed, etc. So once in a while being naughty and daring by making love in a place that’s so not `normal’ (read: routine) is all that a couple needs to spice up their relationship again.

The second reason why this appeals is of course due to the `being viewed’ or `being caught’ factor. Imagine, as you and your partner make passionate love in your garden house, you look up and see your neighbor taking a peek at you guys! For many couples, this adds more lusty fuel to fire and you guys are up for a really hot and exciting time.

Here’s one scenario that a client of mine said really flipped their hot switch, while making `quiet’ love inside their closed garden shed, his wife was bracing herself on the window frame while he was taking her from behind. Out of the blue, a neighbor passed by and began talking to another neighbor very near the shed. They could see the neighbors but thankfully they were not looking their way. As he tried to maneuver her away from the window, she actually did NOT want to move!

He said that while making love to her in that position with the fear of their neighbors turning around to see them through the window glass turned them on so much that it was their best sex ever!

Thirdly, some couples like the idea of making love with a lot of `noise’ but not necessarily the screaming kind. Imagine that as you make love, flower pots fall to the floor, a hammer hits the ground, etc. One particular client of mine even mentioned that he and his lover got a bit carried away that it seemed like things were falling off the walls with all the racquet they were causing. At the end of making love, he and his partner could not help but laugh their hearts off. It was just the thing they needed to re-discover the joys of `impromptu lovemaking’ again!

Keep in mind that it’s not really about the location per se but the fact that you guys are making love in new surroundings. `Routine’ is a bad word in relationships and it is this that you guys should be fighting every time.

Gabrielle Moore is the co-author of The G Spot Code. It teaches men how to please women with G Spot orgasms every time. For more information, go to: http://www.thegspotcode.com

When it comes to lovemaking locations, let’s face it, most couples confine themselves within the four walls of their bedrooms. Is it any wonder then that lovemaking becomes a bit of a routine later on? So to free your sexual spirits and be in touch again with those early, giddy days of your relationship, you should explore making love in OTHER locations of your home.

To start off this lovemaking location series, let’s focus on that other `hot’ place in your home - the kitchen. After you’re through reading this article, I guarantee that you’re not going to look at your kitchen the same way again.

How to Transform Your Kitchen to a Really `Hot Playground’

You may not think of your own kitchen as a sexual playground but that will change soon enough. All you need is a little imagination and some easy-to-do tips to transform your kitchen from cooking area to hot, lustful area.

A Little Kitchen Makeover…
First of all, take a quick look around your kitchen, is it chaotic? As you know, the brain is your biggest sex organ and one of the easiest and fastest ways to stimulate it is by visual means. Simply put, if your kitchen is disorganized, then no thoughts of sexual pleasure will ever likely cross your mind when you venture into that room.

So, first of all, tidy up the kitchen! Store things in boxes, re-arrange the cupboards and throw anything and everything you haven’t used in the past 2 to 3 years! If budget is not a concern, then consider re-painting your kitchen or adding a very dark color somewhere. (I had a client who once changed his entire kitchen counter to dark red granite with broken glass beads in them that gleamed especially at night. After making that change, he claims that seeing that hot, sexy counter made him want to put his lover on top of it every time!)

If you can’t spare much for this makeover, don’t worry; there’s plenty other you can do without spending much. For instance, change kitchen lights to ones that can be dimmed to allow for a romantic setting. Put red candles at certain areas in the kitchen too. You an even put a small red carpet with a hot and sexy design on the floor! Whatever you think will improve the romance factor in the kitchen… just do it.

A Night of Really Noisy Pots and Pans
Now that you’ve sexed up your kitchen, now what? Well, it’s time to prepare for a romantic night of course!

Plan a romantic meal with your lover. Can’t cook? Order in! A client of mine once just had pizza delivered but the table setting and romantic lights and music more than made up for his lack of cooking skills. If you CAN cook, all the better. In fact, an entree of aphrodisiacs or having an aphrodisiac-inspired menu is a great thing to carry out too.

Now dress up a bit for the occasion. We’re not talking about donning on a suit here. Just make sure you’re showered and smelling good. Don a shirt that’s open to reveal your chest and you’re good to go! (And make sure your kitchen counters are cleared of anything on top of them (more on this later…)

Now, while having your meal together, be sure to really bond with your lover. No TV, no blaring music, (no kids…), and others. Tonight, just make it all about you and her.

While having your meal, start to be naughty! Play footsie under the table. Sit beside her and run your hand up and down her thighs while you eat. In short, start building up the sexual tension!

For dessert, have something decadent like chocolate cake or ice cream with hot sauce. Share it with your lover, feeding her from your own spoon. (Be sure to dim the lights by this time! And that space on the kitchen table has been cleared…)

As you engage in more foreplay, do NOT make a move towards your bedroom. Instead, lead her on top of the kitchen table or on the kitchen counter top and make love there! Keep in mind that the height of the kitchen table and kitchen counters can help you with your lovemaking. For example, your lover on the table, you on a chair facing her, makes for excellent oral play!

Now that you know how truly hot the kitchen can be for your relationship, don’t just make this a one-time thing… but don’t keep a schedule either! Here’s a tip: make sure to flirt with each other in the kitchen as much as possible. For instance, while she’s busy peeling potatoes, make your hands busy as well by groping her a bit anywhere you want!

Kitchen Quickie Tip:
It’s not always possible to plan out a full meal for some hot kitchen interlude. When feeling a bit naughty but don’t have the time, simply walk into the kitchen after a shower… naked and `aroused’ or have certain parts of you covered in whipped cream. (Of course, make sure no visitors are currently having tea with your partner!) The sight of you instantly tells your partner what exactly you have in mind and she’ll hopefully feel the same way right away too!

Gabrielle Moore is owner of The Female Orgasm Revealed, a site to help men please their female partners with an orgasm every time. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com